Currently, what you’re looking for isn’t possible using the glossary tools. The option which creates the fewest links in the text is “first occurrence in every chapter”. I believe the rationale for that is that most readers don’t read whole books at a time, more likely a few chapters at a time.
To remove unwanted \w…\w* links from the text, “unlink” all renderings by filtering the Biblical Terms tool to show the terms you wish to unlink. Then, go to Biblical terms menu > Edit > Unlink selected renderings from glossary. (Or “unlink all renderings” if you want to remove all glossary entries from your project text.)
Next, filter the Biblical terms tool to the terms you want to create links for and choose Biblical terms menu > Edit > Link selected renderings to glossary, choose the option you prefer from these choices:
If you want check a book or chapter for glossary entries, here is a helpful regex to use in Edit > Find:
regex:\w .+?\w*
Results will look something like this:
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Others may have more pro tips for Glossaries. I don’t have much experience of them.